The Inner Citadel > *"What then should a man have in readiness in such circumstances? What else than this? What is mine, and what is not mine; and what is permitted to me, and what is not permitted to me… Must I then also lament? I must go into exile. Does any man then hinder me from going with smiles and cheerfulness and contentment?"* > β€” Epictetus, *Discourses* 1.1 (George Long) ## Micro-Lesson The end of Phase II is the realization that calm under pressure is not a mood β€” it is a **decision made in advance**. Epictetus tells his students to keep the question *"What is mine to do?"* loaded and ready, the way a soldier keeps a weapon clean. You will not rise to the occasion; you will fall to the level of your preparation. Prepare. ## Exercise (15 min) Write, in one sentence each, the answer to: *If I lose my job, what is mine to do? If a loved one falls ill, what is mine to do? If I am publicly criticized this week, what is mine to do?* Read the three answers aloud once. ## Journal Prompt What is mine to do, right now, that I have been postponing β€” and what am I waiting for? {{}}